If The Shoe Doesn’t Fit
We’ve all had that moment. You go into your closet to pick out a favorite pair of pants, a shirt, a skirt, a dress, shoes, or maybe even a favorite cologne or perfume. As you put that item on, you suddenly realize and say to yourself... "This doesn’t fit!" It’s either too big or too small. Did you decide to keep that too big or too small pair of pants on? Why? Why do we keep things that DON’T FIT?
Why do we try to fit into things that just don't fit?
Look at this another way. Why do we try to fit into that relationship, friendship, work, a group of people, or maybe social media? Why do we try to fit into something that DOESN’T fit YOU? Trying to make it fit, to make it work. By forcing, pulling, and conforming yourself, how does it feel?
When we hold on to things that no longer fit, whether it's clothes or aspects of our lives, we’re essentially forcing ourselves into a mold that wasn’t made for us. This can lead to discomfort, frustration, and even pain. Yet, many of us persist, driven by nostalgia, fear of change, or the hope that things will somehow adjust and become better suited to us.
But let’s be honest. Those pants that are too tight? They aren’t going to stretch to fit you comfortably. That shirt that’s too loose? It won’t suddenly shrink to hug your frame perfectly. Similarly, that job that drains your energy, the friendship that feels one-sided, or the social media persona that feels inauthentic—they won’t magically transform to suit your true self.
Instead of trying to fit into something that doesn’t suit you, why not seek out what does? Why not find the relationship that makes you feel cherished, the job that inspires you, the friends who accept you as you are, and the lifestyle that aligns with your values?
Just as you wouldn't wear uncomfortable clothes, you shouldn't stay in situations that don't feel right. Your worth isn't determined by how well you fit into someone else's world. It's about finding your own perfect fit—a life that feels comfortable, authentic, and fulfilling.
It's time to be self-aware and recognize when something isn’t fitting you. Remember, growth often involves letting go. It's okay to shed what no longer serves you. Embrace the discomfort of change, knowing that on the other side is a life that truly fits.
"If the shoe doesn’t fit, it's okay to let it go and find one that does."
By making space for what fits perfectly, you allow yourself to grow, thrive, and live a more authentic and fulfilling life. Remember, life is too short to be squeezed into spaces that don’t allow you to breathe and be your true self.
“Life is too short to wear uncomfortable shoes.” – Unknown